Why Vs. How
The challenges we face on a daily basis are astronomical, but yet we somehow overcome them and sometimes persevere.
We ponder on the "why". So, let's think about some of the "why" thoughts that saturate our minds:
-Why are we facing this pandemic, and when will the aftermath end?
-Why don't things just stay the same?
-Why do we have defected relationships that are toxic and eventually end?
-Why didn't we pursue that degree ten years ago, so that we don't have to tolerate dead end jobs?
-Why aren't we living in our dreamhouse or driving our dream car?
-Why is our health failing?
-Why aren't we as smart, pretty, fit, sharp or desirable as we once felt?
Umm, great questions, but the quintessential question isn't Why, it is the How that we need to focus our energy on!
How am I going to get back in shape, get a higher degree, improve my relationships, and consequently lead that blissful life I deserve?
"How" must be our focus! Yes, the "How"!
Food for thought, Aniyah
The Mommy Savior