Sunday, October 11, 2026

**MUST TRY! CASUAL LOOKS FOR FALL 2026**


Hey moms it's Aniyah! I received numerous requests from some of you for more casual style options for fall 2026, so here are some more fabulous tips to give you that edge so you are sure to shine this season!

5 effortless, trend-forward casual fall looks for 2026, styled with versatility in mind!

1. The Short Blouson Jacket & Relaxed Denim

  • The Look: A cropped suede or canvas blouson jacket (in rich olive or tan) cinched at the waist, layered over a fitted white baby tee, paired with high-rise relaxed or wide-leg denim.

  • Footwear & Accessories: Low-profile retro sneakers or suede ankle boots, finished with a "casual heirloom" broken-in leather tote.

  • Vibe: Incorrigibly cool and balanced—the cropped jacket defines the waist while keeping the lower half comfortably relaxed.

2. The Poplin Shirt & Pinstripe Pull-On Pants

  • The Look: A crisp, oversized poplin button-down (light blue or classic white) worn in a half-tuck over tailored pinstripe pull-on trousers (the elevated, sophisticated alternative to sweatpants).

  • Footwear & Accessories: Mesh ballet flats or minimalist loafers, paired with a matching structured shoulder bag.

  • Vibe: Sleek, modern comfort that transitions seamlessly from a daytime coffee run to a casual workspace.

3. Bold Stripes & Chocolate Brown Accents

  • The Look: A heavy knit sweater featuring bold horizontal stripes (such as navy and cream) tucked loosely into dark-wash straight-leg jeans.

  • Footwear & Accessories: Pointed-toe flats or block-heel mules in this season's staple chocolate brown, accented by a pop of cherry red (like a small handbag or scarf).

  • Vibe: Preppy yet effortless, leaning heavily into 2026's favorite rich earth tones and vibrant accent hues.

4. The Cozy Cardigan & Midi Skirt Combo

  • The Look: A fine-ribbed cotton-cashmere cardigan worn buttoned-up as a top, paired with a fluid satin midi skirt or a minimalist denim midi skirt.

  • Footwear & Accessories: Tall suede boots peeking out from under the hem and minimalist gold hoop earrings.

  • Vibe: Textural contrast at its finest—pairing the cozy warmth of knitwear with the sleek movement of satin or denim.

5. Layered Tees & Tonal Utility Pants

  • The Look: A 90s-inspired layered look featuring a fitted long-sleeve tee under a short-sleeve graphic or neutral tee, matched with utility pants or relaxed cargo trousers in tonal beige or charcoal.

  • Footwear & Accessories: Chunky-soled slip-on sneakers and a canvas crossbody bag.

  • Vibe: Utilitarian, youthful, and built for maximum everyday practicality without sacrificing style.

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That's all for now moms! Please leave a comment if you'd like more fashion tips from Aniyah!
Peace and Love!!! 


 

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

 

Fall into Fashion  

Alright ladies (moms),  let’s switch it up! This fall it’s time to toss that "Go-to" black color scheme we are so comfortable with!! 

This season we can curl up to a warm palette of assorted orange hues, greys, beige, browns, mustard, burgundy, and the infamous winter white!!!!

Let's be bold and take a chance this season!  But let's not stress about loading up on an entirely new wardrobe!  The anecdote is to accentuate/accessorize! Here’s how:

                                                                    Casual Look

Just add a scarf! Who cares if we don’t have all of the fall colors in our arsenal! A multicolored scarf can give the variety and versatility we are looking for this season! Pair our multi with jeans, a lounge pant, or even that mini skirt we dare to wear!

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                                                                        Business Look 

Just add a blazer: Many workspaces don’t require formal wear nowadays, but us fashionistas appreciate a classic or even trendy blazer for our silhouettes! And we love to dress it up or dress it down!!

Note: for thrifty shoppers,  Goodwill and Savers shops are known for their assortment of used but classic blazers! 

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Sporty look:  Just add a hoodie!!!!

Girl if this urban look doesn't say comfy and ready for fall, than what does?  Let's grab a hoodie on our next weekend adventure or outing. Opting for mustard, beige or burgundy and give our look the edge it deserves! 


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                                                                   Dressy/Evening 

Camisole anyone?  Go for it!  Remember that nearly nothing spaghetti strap grey cami that's been hiding in our closet? Yep, it's time to give it some attention. Pair with a blazer or cropped sweater for a balmy look that can sizzle the mood!! 



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There we have it, a few concepts to start off our fall look! But wait, I'm not done, I have plenty more to share, so stay tuned for my next fashion post for a follow-up with extra casual and sporty ideas for your play time moms!!

Cheers! 

Anita AKA Aniyah

Modern Moms. Meaningful Lives! 



Sunday, August 9, 2026

Let’s Move Moms!!!


Fitness by Aniyah!

(Easy ways to stay fit this season)

 

I know we are tired, busy, sick, or plain old overwhelmed!!! Consequently, that gym membership goes to waste and the home treadmill that we felt would solve the committing  to the gym issue is collecting dust!!!  

Fret no more ladies! We are about to turn this conundrum around!

Here are 10 things we can do daily to stay fit, lose weight, stop feeling sluggish, and feel stronger every day!!

#1)  Workday-brisk walk
Aim for 20–30 minutes. You can split it into two shorter walks if that's easier!

Moms, this isn’t always feasible for all of us, but I found a work around the busy workday:

-I pack easy to eat lunches like: Sandwiches, wraps, protein or granola bars, and fruit.

Fortunately, I get to eat these at my desk. So, when my lunch time comes around, I am totally free! I use my 30-minute lunch for a power walk around my job’s building. This way I am walking off the food that I indulged in at my desk!!!

Note: for those of you who can’t eat at your desk, try bringing finger food and eating it during your first break (brunch) so that you can free up your lunchtime!

-Do mini movement breaks during the workday-
Every hour or two, get up for 5 minutes. Walk around, stretch, do a few chair squats, or march in place.

***keep a pair of walking shoes at your desk!!***

#2)  Do a 15-minute home workout after work (Minimum 5 days a week)
Try squats, wall push-ups, lunges, glute bridges, and standing leg lifts and jumping jacks (jumping jacks are an effective full-body cardiovascular and plyometric exercise. Even 15 minutes counts).

#3)  Dance around the house 💃🏽
Put on your favorite playlist and dance for 20–30 minutes. It's cardio without feeling like traditional exercise.

This is the Puerto Rican blood in my veins LOL, but I tend to dance while I am cooking! This kills two birds one stone!!

#4)  Take the stairs

 Choose stairs instead of elevators whenever practical. It's an effortless way to add movement throughout the day.

#5)  Walk a few blocks before you get on the bus/Get off bus one stop early/park on the   far side of parking lots when shopping (during the day of course {safety first})

This will ensure you take extra steps daily!

#6)  Do strength exercises
Pushups (strengths chest and arms), put your back against a wall and squat (strengthens knees and thighs). Stand by the kitchen counter, put hands on them for support and bend down up and down motions (strengthens legs and back)!

If you have 5–10-pound free weights at home, go ahead and pick them up! Do some arm curls and lifts and get those arms toned!

#7) Walk while talking on the phone
Turn phone calls into movement opportunities. Walk around your home, outside, or in a safe indoor location.

#8)  Make chores your workout
Vacuuming, mopping, cleaning, gardening, and carrying laundry all keep your moving. Increase your pace and you'll get more activity.

#9) Try a beginner yoga or stretching routine/Low impact aerobics video

Preferably on a big screen (Laptop or TV) as opposed to your phone. It feels like someone else is in the room with you, which can be motivating.
A 10–20-minute routine can improve flexibility, balance, mobility, and body awareness.

#10) Organize your  weekly activity routine by creating a list!

Make your own list of things that work for you!
For example:
Mon: 30-minute walk (during lunch or after work)
Tue: 15-minute strength workout
Wed: Dance + stretching
Thu: 30-minute walk
Fri: 15-minute strength workout
Sat: Longer walk or active outing
Sun: Gentle stretching/rest.

Note: As you can see, we are constantly creating lists. Most if not all my tips are lists!

Don’t panic and don’t worry, I got you! Next week I will show you how to streamline your list!!

Cheers!

Aniyah

Keeping it moving, one step at a time!!!


Sunday, August 2, 2026

Essential Mommy Reminders for Back to school

 


 

  It is already back to school time moms, but let's not panic! We got this!! Yep, August has sprinted in, with September gaining upon us just as quickly! Our minds are going into high-speed mode contemplating the challenges, highpoints, and those special occasions that are headed our way! First comes Labor Day, Halloween and then of course the highly anticipated official holiday season!!  
So, to circumvent the unimaginable, here are some reminders to get us to the end of our list unscathed:

·         Don't forget to place a family calendar in a visible area of your home. Kitchens and living spaces are ideal for this.

·         Set a bedtime routine one week before school starts.

·         Plan weekly dinners (I usually do most of my food prep on Sundays: I cook a few meat choices for the week, whip up a batch of chicken or tuna salad for sandwiches *canned chicken and tuna are very economical compared to the price of lunch meat*

·         Pack those lunches the night before!

·         Stock up on healthy grab and go snacks! *Fruit, granola bars, carrot chips, or take a moment to slice some cucumber *full of antioxidants and promote hydration*.

·         Prep your mommy wardrobe and kids’ wardrobe for the entire week.

·         Delegate tasks to kids and their siblings by making a detailed chore list *keeping your home tidy creates a feeling of control and serenity*

·         Most importantly, stick to a bedtime routine for yourself so you can unwind from a hectic day: Hot shower/bath, cup of herbal tea, reading, coloring, knitting etc.

·         Most importantly, set three alarms so you can hit that snooze button, but still will not be late!

·         Most importantly, give yourself an extra 15-20 minutes each morning for any unexpected delays *this will reduce stress*

Once you get to work (work from home and home makers as well) Settle in, head to the restroom and take 5-10 deep breaths- Inhale and Exhale. Give yourself a daily mantra “ I will make each day count”… “I feel blessed that I have another day”…“My job is paying for my lifestyle, though challenging it sustains my family”… “Smile you are beautiful inside and out.”

·         Most importantly, at the end of the week give out small awards for getting through the week successfully: Give out gold stars to the kids, Take the kids for ice cream (frozen yogurt for us health kickers! LOL), pizza party (Turkey wraps for us health kickers! LOL), or a simple celebration dance with the kids can elevate spirits and build momentum for the following week that we will have to tackle!

Yep,  that’s the reminder list moms. Some items are reminders and some may be new, regardless we are ready to overcome that overwhelmed feeling! We will do this by being armed with a plan that we understand (Nice that rhymes! LOL)!

Aniyah

Remember we can conquer the world inch by inch!!

“May I grow wiser season by season.”

Sunday, August 17, 2025

Today!

                                                                                                            

Sometimes we get into a rut whether it's in the area of our job, relationships or with ourselves! What should we do? Give in? Dwell? Complain? Or take action? Yep I try to go for the latter! TAKE ACTION!!

I sat with a friend recently at her home. We spoke while she was cleaning the kitchen plates resulting from the mexican tacos and cervaza we indulged ourselves in. As she was clearing the surface of her marble countertop she stated that she was bored!  All in the same breath she took a quick call from her hubby, fed her 5 year old fur baby and tended to her live floral arrangement in the dining area.

I watched as she multi-tasked and wondered how such a busy person could say they are bored? 

Routine and Repetition are cycles that allow the brain to master tasks which are beneficial in many instances but can also lead to monotony! 

Saving ourselves from this pitfall takes just alittle creativity:

Let's start our day with a goal in mind: " Today I'm going to get that tan I have wanted all summer.... Today I'm going to take that powerwalk, run or go to the gym and last an extra 15 minutes!... Today I'm going to eat less fried foods and more greens... Or...Today I'm going to take a break by relaxing, reading and pampering myself,  Today I am going to indulge in dessert as a treat!, Today I'm going to spend some time reaching out to family and friends!

Now how can anyone be bored with all of these items on their agenda? This list can become endless and can change from day to day! And guess what?,  implementing this is actually a coping mechanism. You cope with the boredom of the everyday by attacking it with your own intention! 

This small adjustment can make a big difference on your outlook!

So go ahead and try it Today, Tomorrow or this Week! And say to yourself, Umm, Today I am going to____________________________!

Cheers! Aniyah, The MommySavior!

Everyday is another opportunity to be a better version of ourselves!

Sunday, July 27, 2025

I'M BACK!

Hello moms! 

Yes, it has been a while! Like the rest of you I got sidetracked from my writing due to my life events, but I am back in the swing! I came back after remembering why I created this blog! My intention was and still is to reach moms of all ages. To share my research and knowledge on health, fitness, lifestyle, fashion, and of course mommy issues! 

I feel that we need so much more fortitude to get through the day. Countless demands are bestowed upon us. The weight just keeps getting heavier. Sometimes having support from a simple blog/article may be our best friend and greatest ally. 

Something some of you may not be aware of is that I have another platform I am blessed with, KromeMedia, where I contribute by authoring freelance articles hi-lighting actors, models, producers, etc.  I would like to incorporate that world with this blog. So, if you have an appetite for some casual reading feel free to browse those articles as well when I share those links! 

 👉      https://www.krome.media/


Looking ahead, my goal is to inspire women and to help us all escape from the norm!!

  

So, stay tuned because I am fired up again and will have lots more to share!!!


"Live in the moment, plan for the future!" Aniyah, The MommySavior

Sunday, October 23, 2022


Fall into Autumn! 

The thermostat reads fall temperatures, but is your wardrobe ready? What statement would you like to make? What feeling or mood would you like to convey? If you are unclear how to answer these questions, here are a few suggestions! 

This fall check your clothing inventory and guarantee that it consists of:

A statement hat, a blazer, maxi sweater, leather apparel and a classic pair of Booties!!  These pieces are sure to give your style some edge this season!!


     www.lightinthebox.com -Blazer $37.99

 





 https://www.amazon.com/- Maxi sweater $35.99




                www.neimanmarcus.com -Peacoat $948

    

www.wholeeshopping.com  -plaid jacket $19.99

 

 

 

 www.lulus.com- Faux leather Booties $56

 





I hope you enjoyed these suggestions, if so, be sure to comment or like this post so I can continue to serve moms in our community with fashion, health, and lifestyle tips!!

                                           Aniyah, The MommySavior

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